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But over time I realized that sometimes \u201ckeeping the peace\u201d is just another way of avoiding the truth\u2014refusing to take a side when it actually matters.<\/p>\n<p>Things got worse after Margaret moved into the guest wing of our house \u201ctemporarily\u201d after selling her condo. What was supposed to be a short stay slowly stretched into eight long months. During that time she acted less like a guest and more like the owner, criticizing every little thing I did.<\/p>\n<p>Nothing seemed good enough for her. She complained about how I cooked, how I cleaned, and even how I handled my work calls. If she heard me laughing during a meeting, she would roll her eyes and mutter that people who \u201cdon\u2019t have real jobs\u201d always seem to have plenty of free time.<\/p>\n<p>Whenever she saw me sitting at home in casual clothes with my laptop open, she would look at Ethan and ask with a smirk if I was \u201cpretending to work again.\u201d Ethan usually just sighed and changed the subject, hoping the tension would disappear. But each comment built another layer of resentment that none of us could ignore forever.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ethan always tried to keep the peace. 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